Seniors And Children Together

CASS Residential Aged Care Facility winning an architectural award

“Intergenerational programs” and “intergenerational living” have recently become popular concepts in aged care provision. Intergenerational living communities have emerged in countries such as the United States and Germany where the population is rapidly ageing. By offering seniors opportunities to interact with younger generations, they reignite their joy in life. Children learn how to relate to, and care for seniors.

There is something special about the location of the CASS Residential Aged Care Facility (RACF) in Campsie. From the outside, visitors can appreciate the modern design of the building and the abundant plants in the garden. Looking out from a balcony, residents can see the CASS Campsie Child Care Centre next door, full of children laughing as they play. Nearby, the CASS Activity Hall is crowded with middle aged people meeting and doing what they enjoy. The happy sounds of their voices float up.

Three different services for three different generations are so close that participants can see what is happening next door. Although there are safety fences between the areas, it is clear at all times what is happening in each. When RACF residents relax at their windows, on their balconies or in the gardens, they can see and hear everything.

The CASS RACF won the 2015 Urban Development Institute of Australia NSW Award for Excellence. The Foundation Chairperson and Honorary Executive Director of CASS, Mr Henry Pan, commented, “We had intergenerational interactions in mind when we were planning the construction of the RACF. While CASS has been providing aged care services over the years, apart from adhering to Australian guidelines and regulations, we have always paid attention to new concepts and developments in the industry. When we found innovative ideas or experiences from other countries that would benefit our seniors, we would try to integrate them into our services.”

“The design of our RACF also has connections with our cultural roots. In Chinese culture, intergenerational living is common and is a symbol of happiness and wellbeing. When people of different generations live together, seniors can find a smile every day and experience constant from younger people. Children and young people can learn from seniors’ experience and wisdom, while at the same time learning to understand the difficulties they experience in their daily lives. They can understand the traditional Chinese value of filial piety as they look after their seniors.”

“In our service provision for seniors, we have gained understanding of their needs. Before the building of the RACF, we had run activities for them in the Activity Hall while providing day care services in the Campsie Child Care Centre. We saw how the seniors’ faces lit up when they saw children playing. So we have regularly organised joint activities for seniors and children to enhance their interactions.”

“Since intergenerational programs have been well received by both groups, we decided to implement that model when we designed the RACF. We were not aware then that many recent studies in aged care services had also pointed a similar way.”

“The experience of CASS shows that when we watch and listen to seniors while caring for their needs, we will understand them better and be able to provide the best services.”

Watching children and seniors interacting at CASS is heart-warming and comforting. The seniors who receive such loving care in the RACF are truly blessed.

Originally published in March 2018

Interaction of seniors and children at Campsie Child Care Centre

Elderly Parents In A New Country

Some food for thought

Chinese Australian grandparents playing with their grandchildren in parks, shopping malls and libraries are a familiar sight in Australia. Many who witness this admire their devotion.

Filial piety is one of the most important values in Chinese culture. But when they bring their parents to Australia, young people need to consider their welfare and wellbeing. In many cases, young couples migrate to Australia first, and after they are settled, apply for their parents to join them through family reunion. When planning how they will adjust, they need to consider their needs and ensure their parents’ dream of having a wonderful life with their family in the new country can be realised.

Many Chinese grandparents in Australia are not as happy as they should be. They feel lonely and helpless. CASS Settlement Services workers explain why. “We have a lot of old friends coming to us to air their grievances. Some seek help in applying for welfare benefits or public housing, while others simply want someone to listen to their woes.”

There are many reasons for bringing elderly parents to Australia. Some couples need the help of their parents to look after their young children while they work, while others do not want to leave their parents alone in China as they age. But often couples have arranged for their parents to join them without thinking about the long-term consequences. Many elderly parents have to sell all their assets in China in order to fund the move to Australia. When they arrive, they are often called upon to help provide the deposit for their children’s first property, in which the three generations can live together.

“The idea of having the generations living together under one roof is a dream for many Chinese,” say CASS workers. But different habits and sharing a small space can often create conflicts. Financial stress adds to the tension of grandchildren growing up and competing for space. When grandchildren need more space and privacy, grandparents might be asked to sleep in the living room.

Health issues also affect ageing grandparents. Sometimes they are asked to rent their own place and solve their own financial problems. Even if they agree to apply for public housing, this process can take three, five or even ten years. Many Chinese seniors do not understandor speak English, and find it difficult to go to new places or seek help from local organisations. Such factors can lead to the deterioration of relationships between the generations.

CASS Settlement Services workers lament that when the young couples need the help of healthy parents, they advocate family love, yet when their own children have grown up and their parents are ill and weak, they begin to speak of the independence of the elderly. Their parents have suddenly become baggage.

Once their children become adults, seniors in Australia have already started planning for their retirement. After they have paid off the mortgages on their homes, those with means organise medical and funeral insurance. They travel and enjoy life after work. If their health deteriorates, they sell their home and move into an aged care facility. Those with financial difficulties would have applied long ago for public housing and live on a government pension after retirement.

Our workers advise: “Before young people apply for their elderly parents to join them in Australia, they need to carefully consider and discuss the long-term consequences. Will they be financially vulnerable? Will the pension they receive from the home country be able to sustain them here in Australia? Will they be able to adjust to the new environment, especially when they have limited English?

Can the young couple afford to provide for their parents in the long term, for example by providing a separate place to live? They need to make sure their elderly parents can adapt to the new environment and enjoy their new life here, instead of the whole family suffering together when problems arise.”

Originally published in June 2014

Chinese migrants need to plan carefully in order to enjoy a happy life when three

generations begin to live together.

Listening To The Young

A conversation with young Chinese Australians

Steven was only nine when he came to Australia from China. Since he was not fluent in English, he often found himself isolated at school and had a difficult time there. Lost and downhearted, he could not understand why his parents had brought the whole family to this land where communication was difficult and everything seemed strange.

As Steven grew up, however, he began to understand why his parents had made such great sacrifices to come here. He could see that they had given up their friends and familiar environment to start a new life in Australia. But they found it hard to get jobs of comparable status to their Chinese ones, and they missed the support of friends and relatives. They became stressed. But they soldiered on. They had made their choice for their son’s sake.

By the time he was 20, Steven was helping out at CASS Disability Services, in the Group Home. He showed loving care to the clients, and enthusiasm and passion for the work of CASS. His voluntary work was undertaken over and above his day job.

A group of young Chinese Australians with similar backgrounds offer their thoughts about their parents’ migration. They all understand their mothers and fathers had overcome difficulties and made many sacrifices to settle in the new country. They knew that their parents’ dream was that their children would grow up in a stable environment and go on to have secure and affluent lives.

These young Chinese would rather speak English than their mother tongue. But it is touching to find that they have not forgotten the teachings passed on by their parents. Nor have they forgotten traditional Chinese values. They are proud of their Chinese roots. They work hard and have already achieved educational success.

This is undoubtedly the result of the two generations supporting one another. One of them commented, “We are proud to be the descendants of Chinese migrants because they have made such a great contribution to Australia – right back to the old days. They quietly took up jobs no locals were willing to do. The early Chinese migrants should take a lot of credit for what Australia has become today.”

It must certainly be gratifying to their parents to know that their sons and daughters understand and appreciate the sacrifices of their forebears.

However, because they have grown up in Australia, the younger generation may not always share the same views as their parents.  Many want their children to choose professions that lead to a secure future, such as accounting, medicine or finance. They also often hope to share a home with their grown-up children. But young Australians value personal freedom and choice as well as wanting to choose careers which they enjoy and give them opportunities to develop their talents. They also want to move out of the family home and be independent. Such views are often not welcomed or understood by their parents.

They need to realise that the world has changed, and that there are cultural differences between China and Australia. The two generations have grown up in different decades and in different cultural environments, so naturally they have different values. While most young people respect the views and honour the wishes of their parents, they are inspired by a different set of beliefs. While acknowledging their roots, sons and daughters embrace Australian values in this multicultural society. Only with them as a guide can people from different cultures live together harmoniously.

As a way to show gratitude towards both his parents’ generation and Australian society, the young CASS volunteer wants to make a contribution. We at CASS wish that every Chinese Australian will continue to strive towards interweaving Chinese culture and Australian values, to produce something worth passing on from generation to generation.

Originally published in December 2012

Young CASS volunteers contribute to society by assisting the disadvantaged.